Monday, March 29, 2010

Itty Bitty Baseball





The past few weeks, Henry's gone to a once-a-week baseball class for 3-5 year olds at the local rec center. He got a hand-me-down baseball outfit from a big friend that he adores, plus the boy next door plays baseball, so baseball became a fascination for him. We signed him up for this class, and he and Michael went and learned how to throw, wait for a ball, field, run the bases, and bat off the tee. He was a little impatient with the skills at first, because he wanted to play real baseball on a real field like a real baseball player. But unlike in the past, he was a good participator here and really seemed to enjoy it. I didn't get to witness it first-hand, but the pictures testify to the cuteness. Interestingly, Henry is physically left-handed, although he writes right-handed-- just like Michael. Michael sees this as further evidence of Henry's superiority. By the way, you might notice a red pocket on his baseball pants; that was Henry's own idea and he sewed it on himself. He said he needed it to hold all his baseball stuff.

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

The first tantrum, and magic green sauce


Whew! I just weathered Agatha's first real tantrum. She and Henry and I were in her room, goofing around and looking at books and putting on pj's. Henry came across a small tube of toothpaste with SpongeBob on it, surely a gift from some dentist or other. He was delighted with it, although he hates toothpaste and wouldn't get it near his mouth. But not only was there a picture of SpongeBob on it, but the toothpaste itself was both blue AND sparkly. Agatha took the tube and dabbed her finger in the sparkly paste and stuck it in her mouth. And again. And again. "Okay," I said, "let's put the cap back on now and finish our story." "No-no-no-no," Aggie said, waving me off, a fierce and worried look on her face. "One more minute... one more taste... okay, now cap on." And that did it: screaming, holding breath, blue-in-the-face, tantrum. I tried to distract her, to ignore her; Michael came and got her and took her outside for a few minutes, and although she calmed down some, she did not forget: "PongeBOB! Cap!" Even ten minutes later, when we were snuggled in and reading a book before bed, she kept looking at me and saying, with a hurt tone and a furrowed brow, "PongeBOB. PongeBob."

But I did learn about a magical substance besides sparkly toothpaste: Meagan's magic green sauce. My friend Meagan posted this months ago, but I didn't rush to try it, because my kids ate vegetables pretty well anyway, and I didn't think Henry would really go for something creamy and green. But in the meanwhile, I have developed a rather unhealthy reliance on Kraft Macaroni and Cheese. The children are always so happy when I make it, and it has been a nice treat to pull out on a rocky day. But when Agatha sees any saucepan and yells "Macme!" I think that's a sign that enough is enough. So I made Meagan's sauce, which I told the children was "Macaroni and Green," with festive bow-tie pasta... and Henry ate four bowls. So healthy! so easy! so delicious! and children love it! Meagan, you are a genius.

Amelia's version of Meagan's Magic Green Sauce
Throw in the food processor:
* half a large bag of frozen chopped spinach
* two cloves of garlic, chopped
* half of a small container of cottage cheese
* glug of olive oil
* glug of milk
* some salt
* goodly amount of freshly grated Parmesan (maybe 1/3 cup?)
Puree. It makes the most beautiful, bright green, silky smooth sauce. I would also use it for a vegetable dip for grown-ups, or as a sauce on pizza. It's really so lovely. Try it today!

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Agatha's words

Agatha's vocabulary is growing rapidly, and she can repeat pretty much anything we say. When she wants to be picked up, she now says "Mama, hi-ya, hi-ya!" which she adopted from my mom, who says "Hi-YA" when she lifts up the heavy Aggie. She wants to do everything Henry does, and Henry pretty much goes along with it as long as his portion of everything is slightly bigger than hers. The toddler's favorite word, NO, is also a very important word to her. She's entering that phase where no is the first answer to every question, and where reverse psychology becomes a crucial parenting skill. Unfortunately, she has also learned many words from her brother. These include: gun, bullet, ninja, and Poop-Butt. She also says, "Daddy, Apes!" and tries to get Michael to hide with her, in imitation of Henry's ambush game adapted from Planet of the Apes. Tonight at dinner Agatha was agitating for Henry's stuffed alligator, which had been a bone of contention earlier. We were trying to distract her, so I handed her the stuffed cow to hug and sit beside her while she ate. "Cow! Hug cow! Moo!" she said, and then addressed herself again to her soup and crackers. "Soup. Dip. Dip Cow?" she suggested. "No, no, don't dip Cow!" Henry thought that was just hilarious.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Today's photo shoot



It was such a beautiful day, and Agatha had on such a cute outfit, I decided to try to take some nice photos of her. Here's the best I could do!

Today's projects



When Agatha removes that bottle from that baby, it makes a crying noise. Today she looked up and said, "Baby crying!" with a very concerned look and furrowed brow. I tried to show her how to take care of her own darned baby, but she made me comfort it.

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Hey! Mama! Guess What?!

Agatha's big-girl hairdo

Henry's labels for the seeds

When we had our teacher conference a couple of weeks ago, Henry's teachers told us they've seen a blossoming in his social development, and we have certainly seen this at home as well. His cranky contrarianism has been replaced most days with an eager enthusiasm. A most welcome development! It's hard to put my finger on what's different, but he's just more attuned to others' feelings and the appropriate emotions/expressions for certain occasions, and it makes him more fun and appreciative and loving. He's always loved doing projects with Michael, for instance, but now he expresses his pleasure and excitement verbally, and he's more flexible and pragmatic in doing the project (unexpected things don't throw him for a loop). He also notices if we get a bit peeved and do some equivalent of eye-rolling; he calls us on it directly: "Mama, are you mad at me?"
Henry is also talking constantly lately, with forcefulness and gusto, although with dubious credibility. "Mama! Guess what?! When snakes get older, they turn green. So all those snakes in the snake museum, I think when they are 148 years old, they will all be green!... Mama! When ferns start to grow, they have a lot of itchy things, little itchy prickers on them. But then, during the night, they e-vap-or-ate and the itchy things develop into the little stems that hold the leaf to the branch! That's evaporation! Did you know that? ... Mama! Is it that there is no Last Number [his word for infinity]? I have to tell you, there's something amazing about this number, it's one of my favorite numbers-- Mama!! Guess what!! I think just past the bank here there is a special place where we can get ice cream!"
Choosing pansies at the garden center, riding his tricycle, planting seeds with Michael-- everything is an occasion for an enthusiastic discourse on the rules, things to keep in mind, questions and unsolved mysteries involved. Sometimes I do have to plead with him to stop talking for just a minute, but mostly it is so dear and so, so funny.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Tim and Kirsti

Tim and Kirsti were here! They stayed around the corner at the Rauser Radisson and we spent as much time with them as we could. They are so wonderful and it was delightful to be together. Friday we ate dinner here, and Saturday we had a full turkey feast at my mom's.


As you can see from these pictures, my children fell in love with them. At one point Henry actually said, "Tell us another story, Tim!" Tim brought him a photo of himself in full motorcycle gear, and told the story of the picture, and Henry was enthralled. Kirsti read books and talked and played with both kids. I was so happy to see my children connect with them-- both for their own sakes, because of their wonderfulness, and because it gives a taste of the extended family that I so valued growing up. I miss the noisy dinners at Grandma and Grandpa's house. I remember the warm, safe feeling of hearing the hubbub of voices laughing and talking as I fell asleep on the couch in the living room, and when I tucked Henry in on Friday evening I heard the same happy rumble of voices downstairs. It took me a bit by surprise how special it felt to see Henry crawl contentedly into Tim's lap (something he just rarely does) or cuddle with Kirsti. I miss my dad.



Henry was very sad to see them leave on the train, heading to their next destination in Washington DC. As was I! I can't wait until our next visit together. Come back soon, please!

Monday, March 15, 2010

The big bath

We've now been to Berkeley Springs several times, and Henry really enjoyed the anticipation of knowing the place and the special things we do there. He made it clear that he wanted to go have the Big Bath right away, as soon as we got there. Both kids loved the deep, hot Roman bath and I think it finally helped my sinuses open up. It was so much fun we went back the next day and had another one.


The hiking was lovely; the snow was just melting and pools of deep green moss were appearing. Agatha loves riding in the backpack these days.

Agatha fought with her teeth for much of our visit; I have found molar teething to be really miserable. Both my kids have had bouts of inconsolable crying where nothing really seems to help. But then it seems to go away; it's quite unpredictable.


Here's our messy-faced, grumpy toddler, finally asleep in the car on the way home. Despite the teething, coughs, and colds, we had a great time in West Virginia, and I especially loved Henry's enthusiasm this time.

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Spring at last

Reader, it has been a busy and adventuresome couple of weeks since my last post! The most important news is that spring has finally arrived. Two weeks ago, the last weekend of February, we had our last snowstorm, and now the massive snow piles have all melted, the crocuses and snowdrops are blooming, and the daffodils are six inches tall. This time of year is always so miraculous.
We really needed the spring to help cure our unending family viruses. Last weekend was really the nadir: Agatha and I came down with the extremely snotty cold that Henry had brought home, and she woke up on Saturday with swollen, gunky eyes, the infected result of her tears failing to drain through clogged sinuses. Sunday morning she was better, but I noticed that her crankiness was only increasing and realized she was pushing out three new molars. She was so inconsolable at times that I even tried nursing her again, after a full week of being weaned. Then, Henry came running in from outside, wailing and dripping blood on the floor: he had fallen on the concrete and scraped up the side of his face. (And I was still sick.)
That was one week ago, and things are looking up considerably now: Henry's face is nearly healed, Agatha's molars are through and her sweet disposition has returned, and none of us is sick (although I still have a cough). Most importantly, we had a lot of fun this week! It was Henry's Spring Break, and we spent the first part of the week in Berkeley Springs, WV, and the second part here in Lancaster co-hosting our beloved Uncle Tim and Aunt Kirsti. More posts to come on those two wonderful adventures.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010